a family of fighters

Been a couple months since we posted here.

Much is the same, and we move always forwards. Abby left yesterday for her internship at BigStuf, and we and Charley miss her already. She and Charley went to Build-a-Bear last week and she made a bear with 6 hearts… Kyle, Robyn, Abby, Ezra, Charley, and Price. When you press the bear it has a recording in her voice talking to Charley.

Charley recently had eye surgery on his left eye, and it looks SO much better! Check out this photo – before is on the left, after on the right.

He doesn’t yet eat by mouth, nor does he say anything more than dada and mama and buh-bye. He’s making progress slowly and surely though. We’ll be getting leg braces for him soon (he’s already been fitted) to help him learn to walk. Right now he just tiptoes everywhere because the muscles are so tight – and he can’t learn to walk that way.

We still miss Ezra every day. It hasn’t gotten any easier, really. Robyn read somewhere and has been saying it’s moved from our skin to our bones. When you start out with this pain, it is visible instantly – you see it when you look in the mirror, you feel like your words aren’t real, you wonder if you shouldn’t just stay in bed all day and watch TV or read a book. It’s difficult to be happy.

As you move forward (it’s been a year and a half or so for us) the pain moves deeper, off your skin and into your bones. We smile more, but it often feels like there’s weights on the corners of our mouths. It’s a joy which knows life is full of tragedy. I can’t seem to go a day without coming in contact with another family who has lost a child to this cancer, especially as we have been beginning to focus on building up our Because of Ezra organization. What used to be a life of mine and Robyn’s goals and likes has become a battle and a realization pain is everywhere. I’m not saying we can’t smile – we do every day. I just look at people different I guess. More patience for the messed up folks. Less patience for the folks whining about silly things. Much of life is so trivial, yet we place the highest importance on these stupid things like a minor difference of opinion or onions on our burger when we ordered it without them (which I’d never do).

We just got back from the 2012 NMTRC Symposium – a 2-3 day get together of the most amazing people fighting neuroblastoma today. Please, read and share that blog post about what went on. I hope you know neuroblastoma didn’t just stop when Ezra died. We’ve also set up a new series called “This Week in Neuroblastoma” (#twiNB) where we’ll be highlighting some of the past week’s nb happenings. It’s constant. Please read them – the fight is not over, and we are doing all we can to kick neuroblastoma in the face.

I hope things are going well in your life. You made walking through (well, stumbling I guess) Ezra’s treatment just a bit easier. Knowing you guys were on our side, hearing your comments, seeing your support… it strengthened us to know we weren’t alone. I know we still aren’t. We’re fighting every day. Thank you.

events and news

Hey there!

Since we don’t yet have our news and blog section up on BecauseofEzra.org, I’m sharing with you here about what’s going on. Hope you don’t mind. 😉

We just got back from LA yesterday, and had some great meetings with people we’re incredibly excited to be partnering with in Because of Ezra. We have some really cool big events planned for this year, from coast to coast. I’ll continue to share as we get more details secure, but man are we excited. It’s looking like we’ll be able to really affect this horrible cancer.

Speaking of events – if you live local, you can help out this coming Thursday just by eating! A really cool couple of young ladies named Savie and Molly called up Red Elephant here in Tampa (near Dale Mabry and Bearss) and for anyone who eats there (or takes out) this Thursday (the 27th) and mentions they’re there Because of Ezra, Red Elephant will donate 15% of their ticket to the foundation. Savie and Molly also sold bracelets of their own accord at their school late last year – thanks, girls!

We’re still planning on running the Gasparilla Distance Classic in February, check out our last post for details – we’ve got the t-shirt designs in and finalized – check it out:

See ya around…


We are hard at work gearing up for 2011 and launching into our new foundation. We have been chatting with lawyers, doctors, and supporters every day recently, and are really excited about the buzz over Because of Ezra. We just today released stage 1 of our foundation website, and you can see it at becauseofezra.org. It’s a little light on content, and we will be adding more information as January and February come, but we wanted to get something out there this year! If you’re on Facebook and you haven’t yet, you should “Like” our foundation page as well!

I just wanted to drop a note saying that, it’s exciting for us. The St Pete Times is also running a story on Ezra’s life, which will be in tomorrow’s paper (Friday) – you can already view it online here.

Charley is doing great! He keeps growing like normal, and although he still has oxygen and his feeding tube, he is a happy boy and babbling a lot. 2011 is looking to be a good year.